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Raw Toi et Moi Birthstone Ring

Raw Toi et Moi Birthstone Ring

Regular price $136.00
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Our Raw Alchemy Toi et Moi Ring captures the enigmatic chemistry that forever intertwines two souls. Personalize this dual birthstone ring to echo your unique love story, inspired by the iconic Toi et Moi design. Select two genuine, raw birthstones or stones that deeply resonate with you, referencing the birthstone chart in the listing photos. Choose a metal type for the personalized setting.

From the careful selection of stones to the final polished product, each dual birthstone ring is meticulously handcrafted. Variations in size, shape, and color ensure that each piece is unique, mirroring the individuality of your love.

Our in-house electroforming and plating operations, conducted with precision by hand, create a distinctive setting for each stone. We meticulously select genuine gemstones for their vibrant color, quality, and continuity.

Our 14-karat Gold plated and 18-karat Rose Gold plated Raw Stone Jewelry undergoes a detailed process, starting with electroforming in Copper, followed by a "flash" Palladium coating, and concluding with a luxurious fine metal treatment.

If you prefer a warm, earthy glow, our 100% Copper Raw Stone Jewelry is an excellent choice, offering not only a unique aesthetic but also cost savings. Please note that copper may darken over time and could potentially cause temporary discoloration of your finger. If this concerns you, consider upgrading to 14K gold or 18K rose gold plating for enduring brilliance. For more information on the cost savings of copper and answers to frequently asked questions, please visit our FAQ/Help section.

The birthstone options are available in the listing photos, representing each month's unique energy. For July, we exclusively use Pink Tourmaline in place of Ruby for quality and aesthetic reasons.

The exquisite materials and meticulous craftsmanship make this dual birthstone Toi et Moi ring a timeless treasure.

IMPORTANT: Accurate ring size is crucial, as these custom creations cannot be resized. Kindly refer to our Sizing Guide for detailed instructions on obtaining the accurate size.

PLEASE NOTE: We do not accept returns or cancellations for these highly customized works of art.

PRODUCTION TIME: All raw stone jewelry requires 2 weeks for production. Rush production is not available.


We work with high-quality, lead-free metals and low VOC, eco-friendly sprays and sealants. We use fine metals, recycled metals, gold-filled metals, base metals, and alloys. For a breakdown of the content of our metals, please see our FAQ/Help section. Please see this section prior to making a purchase, especially if you have allergic tendencies.

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Care Instructions

The best way to polish up your Wearable Love Jewelry is with one of our Polishing Cloths.

Additional guidelines for jewelry care include:

  • Store jewelry in a sealed bag or box in a cool, dark and dry place.
  • Apply cosmetics, hair products, lotions, perfumes and powders prior to donning your jewelry.
  • Remove your pieces before showering, sunbathing, swimming, washing dishes, or exercising.
  • Prevent damage and breakage by removing jewelry at bedtime.
  • Handle with love and care.


Collapsible content

Bangles are any closed circle bracelet.

Extra Small/Small: 2.25" Diameter OR 7" Circumference
Medium: 2.50" Diameter OR 7.75" Circumference
Large: 2.75" Diameter OR 8.5" Circumference
XLarge: 3" Diameter OR 9 1/8" Circumference

With bangles the tricky part is not the wrist but the largest part of the hand the bangle needs to pass over. To figure out your size, grab a flexible tape measure and squish your hand down (as if you're preparing to pass a bangle over it). Wrap the tape measure tightly around the biggest part of your hand. Then compare that measurement to the circumference above and select the size that works best for you. If it is a gift, the most common size is medium. If you're unsure it's always best to go bigger than smaller. If you are purchasing a personalized piece, because they are so highly specialized, they are final sale.

Please consider upsizing when you order 4+ rings or when the listing comes as a stack.

 If you plan to stack FOUR or more rings on one finger, consider ordering 1/2 size bigger than your standard ring size for a more comfortable fit.

For your convenience, we offer a reusable ring sizing tool. These are wonderful if you don’t know your ring size!

The most common size for necklaces is 18" and we have have found that's the safest length to select when buying as a gift. If you don't know your size, take a flexible tape measure and wrap it around your neck and match the tape measure to the spot that feels best to you on the tape. That's your ideal length!

With necklaces where the chain is connected at two places on the top, please take into account that the top portion of the necklace is included in the measurement. With that knowledge, a 16" length may fit shorter than typical because the top is included in the circumference.

Cuffs are open in the back and meant to fit snug to the wrist.

We find that 80% of our customers fit into our standard 6.5" size. Please note that cuffs are intended to fit snug. To figure out your size, take a flexible tape measure and wrap it around your wrist tightly to find your wrist's circumference. We suggest adding about 1/2" to your circumference for the best fit. For example, if your wrist measures 6", 6.5" size is your ideal size. Reach out to us if you have questions on sizing. We are here to help!

To measure your wrist, take a flexible tape measure (most sewing kits have them) and wrap it snugly around your wrist to find your wrist circumference.
To find the bracelet size, increase your wrist measurement by the increment below, based on how you’d like the bracelet to fit.

For a snug fit, add 1/4 ” to 1/2"
For a comfort fit, add 3/4" to 1"
For a loose fit, add 1" and 1/4"

The size that corresponds closest to your wrist measurement PLUS this increment is what you order. Average wrists measure 6"- 6.25"

Wide-banded rings are rings that are 1/2" or wider.

Some people find they need to upsize 1/2 size to a full size from their standard ring size for the most comfortable fit. It comes down to you, your fingers and how you like to wear your rings. We find most people only need 1/2 size increase. For your convenience, we offer a reusable ring sizing tool. These are wonderful if you don’t know your ring size!

The narrow-banded ring band is typically less than 1/4" wide.

We handcraft each and every ring to order and work in US Ring Sizing Standards. With narrow banded rings, you can simply order in your standard ring size.

For your convenience, we offer a reusable ring sizing tool. These are wonderful if you don’t know your ring size!


Passion meets purpose as we set out to lift hearts and empower souls through handmade Wearable Love jewelry. Our dream of honoring nature, each other, and our craft comes true in our darling studio nestled in the foothills of Northern California. Here we consciously create high quality, ethical, and beautiful jewelry and send it out into the world with intention.

For more detailed information on our intent and purpose in our jewelry and in the world, please visit: Ethos - Behind the Brand.

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